- Interesting lessons that Vanessa Lachey learned about marriage from “Love Is Blind” is that communication is the key for successful married life.
- The couple says they discovered each other through the show.
Vanessa Lachey talks about lessons learned by her while hosting “Love Is Blind” with her husband Nick Lachey. She shares her experience: “If people really turn towards each other and communicate, you will find that a lot of misunderstandings will get resolved”.
The couple tied the knot in July 2011 the NCIS Hawaii star revealed that a relationship to work depends on “constant communication”. “We constantly talk about learning how important communication is,” Vanessa, 42, said. “Yes, it is so cliché. Yes, it is so like, ‘Oh, we’ve heard it before.’ Well, then use it.”
“If people really turn towards each other and communicate, you will find that a lot of misunderstandings will get resolved,” she added. “You will find that nobody’s a mind reader and you can actually really hear your partner out and understand where they’re coming from and maybe help cater to that.”
The TRL alum said that her “wants and needs” changed over the course of their relationship but the pair is still figuring it out as they go along. Vanessa recalled a recent date night check-in with her husband 49, “At dinner, he’s like, ‘What are you feeling you need more of now?’” she said of Nick, with whom she shares daughter Brooklyn, 8, and sons Phoenix Robert, 6, and Camden John, 10. “And I just thought that’s so interesting because it changes.”
“We just were talking at dinner and we had the best time and we learned a lot more about each other that we don’t usually get in the hustle and bustle of kids and work,” she added.
They revealed that they must have found each other through Love Is Blind pods and the romance is still very much alive in a 16-year relationship says Nick the former 98 Degrees singer.
“We’ve thought about that, often. And I really, I’m not just saying this for the benefit of this show, I think we would’ve,” Nick said during a joint interview with Vanessa. “We have the same birthday, we have the same passions, we have the same interests, we have the same drive. Things that motivated us.”
“You would’ve found me through a wall?” asked Vanessa as Nick said in response, “I would find you anywhere.”
